Bullying is an action that results in a mental
disorders. River, Poteat, Noret, and Ashurst (2009) suggest that
bullying is part of everyday life, most students in school, victims of
intimidation or bullying have a negative impact that is related to their mental
health such as causing psychological disorders, depression, and worse is being
able to cause suicide.
Bullying actors will get
satisfaction from their actions. They are afraid of being rivaled, so they
oppress the others. Bullying people consider themselves the most powerful, most
powerful, most powerful than victims of bullying. Bullying perpetrators also
consider themselves the trust even though by bullying he will be hated by
others. They don't care what impact they have on the victims of bullying. And
oppressed victims are helpless individuals who are unable to resist and
surrender to the conditions they experience.
The impact of bullying that often occurs is the occurrence
of psychological disorders. Psychological
symptoms that will occur in bully-victim children such as anxiety or anxiety,
fatigue, reduced self-esteem, difficulty concentrating, moody, self-blame and
easily angry. According to
data (WHO), there are around 450 million peoples who experience psychological
disorders.
In addition to psychological disorders,
the second mental disorder that often occurs is depression. Depression is a mood disorder that causes sufferers to
constantly feel sad. In contrast to ordinary sadness which generally lasts for
several days, feelings of sadness in depression can last for weeks or months.
According to WHO data,
there are around 35 million peoples affected by depression as a result of
bullying. Children who suffer from
depression due to bullying, many run into"negative"examples such as
torturing themselves(self-destruction), alcohol, psycho-addictive substances,
possessing uncomfortable feelings, fear of going out of the house to socialize
in real, bitter experiences and sad feelings always haunt every day, rejected
by the environment, and treated like arbitrarily humbling themselves.
Suicide. Suicide is a fatal impact
of mental disorders.
According
to data (WHO), nearly one million people commit suicide every day. Bully
victims committed suicide because they were no longer able and stressed because
they were bullied.
So, Bullying or what we call suppression is familiar to us.
That until now there are still many cases of bullying that still have not been
dealt with and are often experienced by everyone regardless of age, from the
young to the old, even from the closest person even the family.
Bullying that often occurs in children is considered the initial form of
violence that occurs in adolescence and is a form of behavioral disorder. And
bullying has an impact starting from psychological disorders, depression, and
even attempting suicide.
After
knowing what bullying is and its
effects, let's together dare to say "NO" to bullying. Don't be a bully
don't want to be bullied.
References :
Beritasatu.com
https://www.academia.edu/7313182/Dampak_Psikologis_Remaja_Korban_Bullying
